Capote became a kind of adopted son to the Paleys, and Babe was the first among equals when it came to the writer’s
coterie of ‘swans’ — society women such as Maria Agnelli, Gloria Guinness, C.Z. Guest, Lee Radziwill and Slim Keith,
who combined drop-dead looks, elegance, charm and the hauteur of the formidably long-necked. “She was the most
undishevelled person imaginable,” recalled the writer and Capote biographer George Plimpton of Babe Paley. “So
groomed, everything perfectly in place, whether she was sitting in a cabaña on the Lido or hosting a fancy
dinner.”
There were many venues in which to stage the latter: the St. Regis apartment (conveniently owned by her
brother-in-law Astor); the 80-acre Kiluna Farm in Manhasset, Long Island (which housed the bulk of the art
collection); the Jamaica bolthole; and, later, the 820 Fifth Avenue apartment that formed the way-station for
Capote’s Black & White Ball, where Babe, the punctilious hostess, ensured that all the sheets were ironed twice
(once in the laundry and again on the bed) and all the menus were archived so guests didn’t suffer the embarrassment
of being offered repeated dishes. “You couldn’t even get into the bathroom for all the flowers,” remembered one
awestruck visitor.
Such trappings served to mask darker undercurrents in the Paley ménage. Both Bill and Babe were the souls of
old-world discretion — all her life, Babe accepted letters but never phone calls — but Bill’s extra-marital affairs
became public fodder with the publication of ‘La Côte Basque’, a chapter from Capote’s thinly veiled roman à clef
Answered Prayers, in Esquire magazine in 1975. In the extract, “Sidney Dillon”, the Paley
stand-in, beds the dowdy wife of a New York governor (possibly based on Nelson Rockefeller’s second wife, Mary),
because she represents the one thing that the Jewish Dillon’s money can’t buy — acceptance by the Wasp elite. Having
asked her up to his pied-à-terre “to look at his Bonnard”, he discovers, post-coitus, that her menstrual blood has
left a stain “the size of Brazil” on the bedsheet. Terrified that his wife will find out, he scrubs the sheet in the
bathtub, then tries to dry it by baking it in the oven before manhandling it back on the bed (a grotesque burlesque
on Babe’s twice-washed, fragrant linen).
Babe decried “the ultimate betrayal” and refused to speak to Capote again. “Babe was appalled by ‘La Côte Basque’,”
John Richardson, Picasso’s biographer and Babe’s friend, told Vanity Fair in 2012. “People used to talk
about Bill as a philanderer, but his affairs weren’t the talk of the town until Truman’s story came out.” For his
part, Capote claimed that he had never met anyone as “desperately unhappy” as his erstwhile confidante. “She had
everything — beauty, chic, all the money anyone could want,” he said. “But she discovered when she got it that it
wasn’t what she wanted. I regard her life as a great tragedy, though no one else in the world would agree with
me.”
By this time, Babe, a lifelong smoker, was gravely ill with lung cancer, despite Bill marshalling the full extent of
his not inconsiderable resources to fight the disease. “She’d been the ultimate trophy wife, but she’d had the
unfaithful husband and she was battling cancer in her early sixties,” said Amy Fine Collins, Vanity Fair’s
special correspondent. “There was now a kind of shadow alongside the shininess, prettiness and flawlessness.” Babe
died in July 1978, the day after her 63rd birthday, and, true to form, had planned her send-off down to the finest
detail: friends toasted her with glasses of Pouilly-Fumé de Ladoucette at an alfresco luncheon amid floral sprays
generous enough to impede even the most determined attempts at restroom ingress.
Bill outlived Babe by a further decade, maintaining his place at the apex of C.B.S. — largely symbolic but no less
compelling — until the very end. Bedell Smith writes of him attending a party on a cool spring evening in 1987 to
honour the success of the network’s 60 Minutes, one of television’s most successful shows, just a few
months shy of his 86th birthday. He leaves his elegant office, with its antique chemin de fer card table as
its centrepiece (instead of anything as prosaic as a drone’s desk), and he dresses for dinner in his bespoke finest
with the help of his valet, John Dean, once an equerry to the Duke of Edinburgh, at the same Fifth Avenue duplex
from whence, three decades previously, his party had sallied forth to the Black & White Ball. Before stepping
into the elevator, he may well have reflected, like Capote before him, on the Georgian splendour and the now iconic
paintings (which were donated to the Museum of Modern Art after his death in 1990), and his and Babe’s achievement
in establishing an apotheosis of American style. It spoke of the power, glamour, allure and influence they’d
wielded, with a combination that looked simple but proved ineffable: minimal fuss and maximal finesse.
This article originally appeared in Issue 41 of The Rake.