“Our idea of a perfect day is when we take our time to live, and go slowly.” reflects Hedi Sersoub of The Mechanists. “We enjoy pour
over coffee, we take walks together with our dog, Arden. The best is visiting our local lake. Any time of the year
it is breathtaking, and it’s been nice to witness it change with the seasons. The perfect day ends cooking together
with a good drink, and a nice soundtrack filling the house.” On how Hedi met Danielle, “our first date was a quick coffee in
London. Danielle was just back from a trip with her suitcase in tow and I was running around shooting a story with
Porsche for The Rake.”
For Jislain and Gina, love is, “when she folds my socks in
perfect little squares in my drawer, and when he wakes up early to make me breakfast before work. It’s the way she
always laughs at my jokes, and the way he grabs my hand whenever we cross the road. Love is when you do all the
little things, that are actually the biggest things.”
Another one of our favourite couples, and if you have an Instagram account they’re probably yours too, Mr. and Mrs.
Style After 50 (Andy Poupart and Michèle Free) share how they first met. “It
was at a company we both worked for in the early 2000s. For several years we were simply colleagues, but over time
our relationship developed into something much more significant. Oddly enough, we had both worked at the same
company once before — more than ten years earlier. We knew several people in common from that time, but had never
met ourselves.” Celebrations may look different, but this year still offers a perfect opportunity for time spent
together. “With exception of this year, we usually celebrate Valentine's Day by going to dinner at a good
restaurant. If we are home, we always go to our favorite restaurant in Saratoga, California. It is sad to reflect
that last February 14th was the last time we were able to go to that restaurant and almost the last time we ate at a
restaurant at all. We usually exchange gifts, too. But the best gift we each receive is the company of the other. As
long as we are together, it doesn't matter where we are or what we can or cannot do.”
Richard Biedul and partner Melissa haven’t let lockdown affect them.
“My perfect day looks very similar whether it’s lockdown or not,” says Richard. “All I need is some good coffee in
the morning, followed by a long walk with Vinnie (the dog) and Melissa; a long (over indulgent) lunch and an
afternoon nap with them both on the sofa. I’m a man of simple tastes. As long we are all together it’s a good day.
Her ability to give me unwavering support, both personally and professionally — regardless of how much self-doubt I
have — is something I cannot express my gratitude for. She will always believe in me and instil me with the
confidence I need.”
“Pre-lockdown,” says Melissa, “I would say a lovely afternoon lunch at Francos on Jermyn Street, easily one of the
best Italians in London. We would sit for hours come rain or shine, smoking and chatting and people watching. Of an
evening I love nothing more than a trip to the cinema usually to see a horror movie.” On what she most appreciates
about Richard, it is his “ability to calm me and make me laugh no matter how bad the situation. I will always love
and be annoyed by this at the same time.”
And who better to define love, than Carolina
Cucinelli and Alessio
Piastrelli. “It may seem like a simple question, but it is not. It is probably the most difficult
question of all. I think there are different kinds of love.” says Carolina. “Self-love is the first one, and it
should never be missing in the life of any human being. It is the kind of love that makes you fight for your dreams
every day of your life, and gives you the courage not to waver when faced with obstacles. The love for your loved
ones, which pushes all your needs aside and prompts you to be there for your loved ones when they need you. The love
for one’s children — it is the love that chases you all day and all night, the reason why you can't wait to get home
and hug them, the love that keeps you awake at night watching them and doesn't make you feel tired, even if you
haven't slept for weeks.”
And last, but certainly not least, “love for the person with whom you decide to share a part or a whole life. In this
case, the word Love contains other important words inside: friendship, because sometimes in life you need someone to
confide in, someone who makes you laugh even in the darkest moments; respect, because to live a life together you
need to know how to respect each other; and complicity, because you have to choose each other every day, like the
first time. For better or for worse.”
