Together Again, Kid

A year before, Bogart had cemented his place in the celluloid firmament as Rick Blaine in Casablanca. His hard-drinking, smoothly cynical, immaculately tailored on-screen persona became indistinguishable from his public perception. He may as well have spat bullets and pissed bourbon. But the teenage Bacall saw something entirely different. Although she bristled when his shadow fell on interviews even decades later – Bacall famously told Michael Parkinson “being a widow is not a profession” when he dared to bring up her late husband - she described their initial coupling as “the headiest romance imaginable”.

In marked contrast to the leathery aloofness he radiated in such films as The African QueenandThe Maltese Falcon, Bacall painted him as shy, gentle, vulnerable, emotional and even insecure. Despite being married three times before, he sobbed during their vows and his private letters to her included such lines as, “You came along and into my arms and into my heart and all the real true love I have is yours – and now I’m afraid you won’t understand and that you’ll become impatient and that I’ll lose you – but even if that happened, I wouldn’t stop loving you for you are my last love and all the rest of my life I shall love you and watch you and be ready to help you should you ever need help.”

When not with Slim, it seems Bogart felt as incomplete as a PI feature without a femme fatale. He even took a turn for the treacly when alone, “All the nice things I do each day would be so much sweeter and so much gayer if you were with me. I find myself saying a hundred times a day, ‘If Slim could only see that’ or ‘I wish Slim could hear this.’ I want to make a new life with you – I want all the friends I’ve lost to meet you and know you and love you as I do – and live again with you, for the past years have been terribly tough, damn near drove me crazy. You’ll soon be here, Baby, and when you come you’ll bring everything that’s important to me in this world with you.” Remember this is from the man who embodied the most hardboiled gumshoe of them all – Phillip Marlow – in The Big Sleep.

Bacall was no less effusive in her recollections. “What it felt like to be so wanted, so adored,” she would later recall. “No one had ever felt like that about me. It was all so dramatic, too. Always in the wee small hours when it seemed to Bogie and me that the world was ours - that we were the world. At those times we were.”

Marriage was inevitable and if anyone was still in doubt as to Bogart’s swelling sentimental heart, the nuptials settled the question in a river of salted cheeks. Bacall recalled, “As I glanced at Bogie, I saw tears streaming down his face - his ‘I do’ was strong and clear, though. As Judge Shettler said, ‘I now pronounce you man and wife,’ Bogie and I turned toward each other. He leaned to kiss me and I shyly turned my cheek - all those eyes watching made me very self-conscious. He said, ‘Hello, Baby.’ I hugged him and was reported to have said, ‘Oh, goody.’ Hard to believe, but maybe I did. Everyone hugged and kissed everyone else and more tears were shed. Bogie said it was when he heard the beautiful words of the ceremony and realized what they meant - what they should mean - that he cried.”

Cast opposite arguably the world’s biggest film star of the day, Bacall recalled director Howard Hawks’ instructions “to approach a scene with a man as a man would. He wanted insolence and he wanted a woman in control." It was a directive that perfectly suited Bacall’s demeanour. For beneath the exquisite complexion and stellar cheekbones, was spine of steel, a barely repressed insouciance that manifested itself in the arch of an eyebrow and tongue that could be utterly vicious under the right circumstances. In 2004, for example, she was asked what it was like performing with fellow “legend” Nicole Kidman. To which the then 79-year-old replied, “She can’t be a legend. You have to be older.” Half a century before the terms “zero fucks given”, Bogart and Bacall embodied the notion. What others thought of them, to paraphrase one of Bogart’s famous Casablanca lines, “didn’t amount to a hill of beans”.

Inviting even more scrutiny, in 1947 the Bogarts became founding members of the Committee for the First Amendment, Hollywood's retort to the activities of Joe McCarthy's House Un-American Activities Committee. By her own reckoning Bacall was the driving force which got her famous husband on a plane to Washington to address the communist witch hunt decimating America’s creative community. This was no mere public appearance though. Many actors, directors and writers saw their careers evaporate overnight with the whisper of “communist sympathiser”. To take a stand came with significant risks, but Bogart – who voted Republican until he met Bacall – and his spouse were simply not content to be witnesses to what they viewed as an abomination.

Bogart and Bacall drew obvious comparisons to that other great seemingly mismatched couple of the day: Spencer Tracy and Katharine Hepburn. But one always got the feeling that as far as the former went, it was more than a meeting of just minds. It smouldered like a California brush fire, even if the accompanying aesthetics were often more a matter of happenstance than design. Quizzed about her signature ‘Look’ that tightened the tweeds of both her co-star and viewers around the globe, she said, “By the end of the fourth take [on To Have And Have Not], I realised that one way to hold my trembling head still was to keep it down, chin low, almost to my chest, and eyes up at Bogart. It worked, and turned out to be the beginning of ‘The Look’.” They went on to star in three films together: The Big Sleep,Dark Passage, and Key Largo.

Off-screen, the relationship was by all accounts as loving as it was glamorous and raucous. Bogart and Bacall were integral in the creation of the Las Vegas ‘Rat Pack’. In fact it was rumoured that she coined the phrase on encountering the severely hung over group. By all accounts, Lauren loved a party and it was one of the rare areas in which their age gap became apparent. “Sometimes Bogie would complain that he felt like my escort, not my husband,” she said.

With two such combustible characters, there were inevitable flare ups. Bacall was never threatened by another woman but felt she couldn’t quite compete with Bogart’s racing yacht Santana. “He was in love with her sleek lines, and the way she moved in the water. Sailing was his greatest joy,” she would later say.

If Santana was his baby, when Bacall announced her first pregnancy, Bogart was all at sea. “The day I told him I was pregnant, we had the biggest shouting match of our lives. It hadn’t occurred to me that, 48 years old and childless, he wasn’t ready to be a father. He kept yelling that he hadn’t married me just to lose me to a baby,” she said. It took him a day to get used to the idea and the couple ended up with two children, Stephen (named after Bogart’s To Have And Have Not character) and Leslie.

They were to have a mere dozen years together and Bacall became a widow at 33. “I didn’t know what the hell I was doing,” she later said. “If I didn’t have those two little children, I don’t know what I would have done.” What she did end up doing was Frank Sinatra in a brief affair and spectacularly fractious engagement. Although she continued to work steadily, Bacall only received her first Oscar nomination in 1996 and she even lent her vocal talents to an episode of Family Guy entitled “Mom’s The Word”. She found marital happiness once more in the form of fellow actor Jason Robards but such was the glorious improbability of her first love that it is still a beacon of hope for seemingly mismatched lovers into the next millennium.

Thirty four years after the release of the last film they made together, their on-screen chemistry still retained enough mythic allure to inspire one of 1982’s biggest hit songs. It was by a one-hit wonder called Bertie Higgins and featured the immortal lines “we had it all, just like Bogie and Bacall, starring in our own late, late show, sailing away to Key Largo.”

The cynics will say that this tale has endured because Bogart didn’t live long enough for his child bride to have to nurse him to decrepitude and perhaps they have a point. Yet such voices will always be drowned by those of the view that Bogie and Bacall forever represent taking a chance on love despite the naysayers and cynics, the scoffers and the doubters, heartbreak and experience. Especially now – depending on your views on the afterlife – that they are together once more. “See you kid. Hurry back”.

This article originally appeared in Issue 38 of The Rake.